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Wednesday, July 4, 2012
What do you do when you doubt your ability as a writer?
As a writer, I often doubt
my ability. I started writing as a child and have always loved to create
characters and scenes. I didn't start writing my series until Oct 2010, and have
only been self-published and in the writing community since last June. Because
of my inexperience, or maybe just because I am human, I sometimes wonder if I
have talent or the strength to make it as a writer.
Luckily, over the past
year I have made a network of friends that I can turn to when I doubt myself.
And when I reach out to them, I find out that I am not alone... And neither are
you!
Social networking provides a great way for writers to connect with each
other, bloggers, and readers, and if you are not using it, you are really
missing out!
I have met amazing people and thoroughly enjoy the relationships
I have built. Most of the people I have never met, and probably never will, but
I can contact them when I need help and they are always there for me. I call
them my BTF's, Best Twitter Friends. :)
The one thing you have to realize is
that building your network isn't easy and it doesn't happen overnight. As I
said, it has taken me a year to get where I am now, and I am still learning. You
always have to "pay it forward". You have to be willing to market not just
yourself and your books, but those in your network as well.
Not only should
you follow writers, bloggers, readers, etc... on Twitter, but on Pinterest,
Linkedin, Tumblr, Facebook, and the list goes on. Look around and see what sites
you enjoy and what works for you. Join some writing groups on Facebook, check
out the World Literary Cafe, or the Independent Author Network... there are many
groups out there to offer support.
Sometimes you get lucky, and
there are other writers close enough to you that you can meet up for lunch. I
was lucky enough to have that happen this weekend, and it was a wonderful
experience!
I met up with authors Sheri Fink and Jessica Therrien, both of
whom I attended the Southern California Writers Conference with in Feb, and we
had a wonderful lunch together.
We discussed our writing, marketing, and our
lives with each other. It was great to meet with like-minded people and discuss
what we love... Writing. I left that lunch energized and motivated to work! I
highly recommend it.
The bottom line is that we all have doubts, and worry
that we aren't doing everything we can to continue doing what we love, but never
forget that there is an entire community of people here, ready to assist you
when you need it!
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Absolutely! The writing community is a very warm, supportive environment.
ReplyDeleteI wouldn't be where I am now without this amazing writing community. Great post!
ReplyDeleteLi and SA,
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for commenting. I am glad you are having as much fun in the wonderful community as I am!
Bethany